Now that our daughter is settling into her new life in Auckland, I was looking at some photos and videos of her walking the dog at a seaside park. The landscape was so lovely that I said out loud to my husband, “Wow, this is beautiful, I’d love to walk there!”

Maybe I sounded a bit too enthusiastic, because he answered by saying he’d like to visit New Zealand but wasn’t planning to move. Of course, I haven’t made any plans to move either, not having seen the country in real life yet; but I hope we’ll find many beautiful places when we visit.

Word-art that says, "If you truly love Nature, you will find beauty everywhere." -Van Gogh

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I took this post’s title from an online yoga session by Owen Henn, which is part of the library available through my Hydrow subscription. It is one of my favorites—calming and restorative, with gentle exercises—inviting participants to slow down, be still, and do nothing but breathe.

Photo of a river with still water in sunlight.

(Photo credit: Robert Anders)

To be honest, this isn’t what I had in mind to write over the weekend. I woke up feeling I ought to be more creative and finish another installment of one of the three stories I’ve had in progress on this blog for years. Then I thought about the yoga exercise, reminded myself that I spent plenty of time during the week producing paid work, and decided it would do me some good to slow down the beginning of my day.

So, instead, I got my breakfast and intentionally did nothing productive whatsoever—just sat on the couch doing a Sudoku puzzle for a while, enjoying a small moment of stillness.

On Wednesday afternoon in New Zealand, which was late Tuesday evening here in Ohio, the quarantine period for my daughter’s dog was over. She sent photos and videos of their happy reunion, with plenty of excited tail-wagging and jumping for joy. However unpleasant the quarantine might have been for the dog, all was quickly forgiven and left in the past.

If only humans could forgive and forget as easily as our pets, I expect we’d have a much better world.

Word-art with a heart that says "Forgive,"

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

September 14, 2025 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

My daughter arrived safely in Auckland, New Zealand, and has been setting up her apartment. She has a job offer at a hospital but doesn’t yet know her start date because that depends on when the nursing visa paperwork gets finalized. The dog is still at the quarantine facility, which has been sending updates on how she is doing. From the photos of her sad little face, it’s clear that she is desperately looking for her human.

Photo of my daughter's dog, Remi, in quarantine after arriving in New Zealand.

When she gets released from quarantine, she’ll have a comfy bed by a window in the apartment so she can see what’s going on outside, according to my daughter’s latest message, and a soft rug to roll around on. Not much longer to wait now…

My day was somewhat out of the usual routine, with an out-of-town errand in the morning and a short task during my afternoon break. Nothing too unusual about that; but after a hard rowing workout on the river, it had gotten dark by the time we left the boathouse, and I’d had no unscheduled time whatsoever to just chill out and relax during the day.

I reminded myself that there is only the present moment—so, if I want more time to rest, I already have as much of it right now as I’ll ever have.

Word-art that says, "Everything you want, you already are."

(Image credit: John Hain)

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

The New Zealand flight carrying our daughter and her dog is boarding now. It will arrive on Saturday morning there, which is Friday afternoon here. The time difference will take some getting used to, I’m sure. She has a job interview scheduled for Tuesday, and I expect she’ll do well despite such an exhausting trip.

I’ve been in the same job and house for many years, and I can’t see myself jumping into the unknown like that. Still, there’s a part of me that enjoys setting out on new adventures, like when I travel with my husband to a rowing regatta in a city where I’ve never been. One never knows when a new path might appear.

Word-art that says, "Follow the path your heart longs to take. It's time, it's time, it's time." -Doe Zantamata

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

September 2, 2025 · 2 comments · Categories: Musings · Tags: ,

So far, my daughter’s New Zealand trip is off to a good start. She took a flight from Cincinnati to Los Angeles yesterday, with no problems. The dog had a final vet visit there and has been cleared for international travel. As a parting gift, we now have a refrigerator magnet with a photo taken many years ago.

Photo of dog sitting on concrete, with pool and willow hedge in background.

The photo left me feeling a bit melancholy. The willow hedge in the background got killed by climate change; and as for the dog, although she is healthy and energetic, she is older, and I don’t expect she will ever return to her puppyhood home. Traveling across borders with a pet is a complicated and time-consuming affair. New Zealand requires a quarantine of almost two weeks for an animal brought into the country.

Still, it’s good to have a memento. Those were happy times, and I believe there will be many more to come—even if they are different from what we might once have anticipated.

This evening, my husband and I rowed our singles again. We didn’t row them much in the spring because many days had windy and choppy conditions, so we usually rowed the double for more stability. As a result, I’ve been feeling out of practice in my single. Leaving the dock, I didn’t judge the wind properly, got blown back in, and had to launch my boat all over again.

My husband pointed out that even though I may not feel as confident in my single as I would like to be, I do race it regularly. That is more than many people do, and those who stay home probably see me as very brave and capable. It’s all a matter of perspective.

Word-art that says, "Don't compare your life to others. There's no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it's their time."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

My daughter plans to become a world traveler; she’s moving to New Zealand next week. She is a neonatal intensive care nurse, so finding a job anywhere is not a problem for her, given the worldwide shortage of nurses. It should be quite an adventure, once she gets packed and ready. She gave up her rental house on Saturday, brought her stuff here, and piled much of it in our family room.


After several days of going through it all, giving some things to friends and donating others, she has her suitcases packed for the trip and a bit of extra stuff (mostly clothes) that will stay in her bedroom here. The family room is back to normal, except for the occasional dog bone or chew toy. Here’s a link to a post I wrote about her dog fully 11 years ago on this blog, as a little puppy. Wow, time flies.

When I rowed on Tuesday afternoon with my husband, it was another hot and humid day, and we got chased off the water by thunder after just one short lap. Still, it was a good day. I felt more confident rowing my single in the wind, and we didn’t get rained on while washing the boats and putting them away.

By the next morning, the temperature was much cooler; it looks as if the heat wave may finally have broken. More good days to come!

Word-art that says, "Make today a good day."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”