Instead of taking the entire week off from work during a spring break trip as I did last February, I decided to bring my laptop and work part of the day on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday.

My husband regularly travels with his laptop, in part because he has fewer vacation days than I do, but mostly because he is a senior software developer and could be called upon at any time if there is an unexpected problem with the company’s website. That’s fine with him because working remotely is so much better than the way things used to be.

Whether or not we have work to do, we feel fortunate when we wake up each morning.

Word-art that says, "When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive, to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love." -Marcus Aurelius

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I felt somewhat unfocused today—not because of anything in particular, but just a lot of errands the past few days and getting ready for our spring break road trip to Sarasota. This year it’s easier for us because the Greater Columbus rowing club will take all the boats from Ohio on their trailer, instead of my husband taking them on Greater Dayton’s trailer as he did last year. He doesn’t mind, but it’s good that he is not always the trailer driver and can have a more relaxed trip to the (hopefully) sunny South.

After finishing my work for today and setting out my clothes for packing, I feel more comfortable just sitting here composing this post, without much else going on now. It’s all good.

Word-art that says, "If today gets difficult, remember the smell of coffee, the way sunlight bounces off a window, the sound of your favorite person's laugh, the feeling when a song you love comes on, the color of the sky at dusk, and that we are here to take care of each other." -Nanea Hoffman

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

February 13, 2025 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

My birthday was last week, and one of my gifts was a “Squishmallow” giant pillow with a tag identifying it as “Lorna the Llama.” My daughter and her girlfriend Vata picked it out for me. I decided that Lorna was very well suited to reading my Kindle on the couch, which has smaller armrests than the previous couch and definitely could benefit from having a big pillow to lean up against.

Photo of my couch with a Lorna the Llama squishy pillow.

Lorna also adds some cheerful silliness to what had become a rather dull part of the house since the unfortunate demise of my digital art display in 2023. I’m still planning to replace the art display sometime, but I haven’t yet identified a new product to take its place on the dining room wall, opposite the corner of the living room where Lorna has taken up residence. For now, Lorna reminds me that life should be fun and there is always space for improvement.

I wouldn’t say that I have grown old and wise yet, but I have developed at least some perspective over the years. Issues that once seemed to be insurmountable problems feel more manageable as they gain context. I have more confidence that they can be turned around. Even when they have been going on for what seems like a long time, I find it easier to visualize a future in which they have faded away.

Word-art that says, "No matter how long you have traveled in the wrong direction, you can always turn around."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

Last week I didn’t spend much time online. I felt like reading an old ghost story instead, so I checked Wuthering Heights out of the library, using the Libby app and reading it on my Kindle. It wasn’t as much of a ghost story as I had expected. Not a love story either, although it has passionate characters. Probably the best category for it would be psychological drama.

But then, if classics were easily described, they wouldn’t be classics, I suppose.

Word-art that says, "A classic is a book that has never finished saying what it has to say." -Italo Calvino

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I’ve been indoors for most of this week’s cold days, except for some errands on Tuesday. Today was dark and gloomy, leaving me with a touch of the winter blahs. I knew I’d feel better after doing my rowing machine workout and getting my heart rate up; the plan for today called for high-intensity intervals, and I’d done this exercise before and had a good sense of how to pace myself for them.

Still, it took me most of the day to summon up the energy to get started. The blah thoughts, in which my imagination constructed a stressful scenario that was not in fact likely to happen in real life, hadn’t totally gone away by the time I finished my warm-up row, but the intervals effectively left me with no thoughts of anything but sucking in more air. The workout itself was not much fun; but afterward, I felt much better.

Word-art that says, "Every time you choose to go for a walk instead of reacting to a stressful situation, you win."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

This week has been cold and snowy here in Ohio. A few days ago, I took a photo of the snow on my deck piled against the patio door, which left me wishing to be somewhere warmer.

Photo of snow on my deck, taken through the patio door.

That got me thinking about my younger selves in the make-believe village of Channelwood, who appeared more regularly in this blog a few years ago but have been somewhat neglected since then. I visited them for a pretend spring break in 2021, when of course nobody got a real one because of the pandemic. This year, my husband and I have travel plans for Sarasota in mid-February; but that is still a month from now, which seems very far away when there is snow on the ground every day.

Looking at the photo, I heard wings beating in my imagination. A greenish-gray dragon landed on my deck with a thump, tucking his wings and curling his tail to fit inside the railing. On his back was my five-year-old Peter Pan alter ego, wearing a green jacket with matching pants and boots. Steam billowed up around the dragon as his warmth melted some of the snow. Peter beckoned for me to come outside, and I pictured myself in suitable winter gear stepping into the image.

“I’ve just come from Neverland,” Peter informed me, “and this is my good friend, the Never Dragon. You’ve met him once before—in Channelwood, when he was a baby. He says he wants to go back there for a visit, so I thought we could all fly to Channelwood together.”

The dragon didn’t have a saddle, but I decided that I certainly ought to be able to avoid falling off, since this was my own daydream. I climbed up behind Peter, and the dragon lifted into the sky, heading east.

After we’d been flying steadily for a while, we got into some clouds, which felt cold and clammy. My glasses fogged over, and I wasn’t sure how much time had passed before the dragon went into a gentle glide. We came out of the clouds just above Channelwood’s beach. The air felt much warmer here—wonderfully springlike—as we landed softly in the sand.

I slid down from the dragon’s back and just stood there for a moment, enjoying the sound of the waves and the scent of the sea. The sky was clearing, and the warm sunlight on my face was delightful. I felt as if I could stand here all day.

Peter took three small red apples from his pockets and gave one to me. He bit into another and held out the third apple to the dragon, who devoured it in one gulp. Apple-scented steam rose from the dragon’s nostrils, and after I’d taken a few bites of my apple, the dragon was happy to eat the core.

“Now that we’ve had lunch,” Peter said cheerfully, “what adventures shall we go on today? How about looking for pirate ships to chase away from the coast? Or maybe there’s a sea monster in the bay or a wicked witch in the woods.”

A wave reached higher with the incoming tide, gently rolling almost to my feet, which were still in their winter boots. Starting to feel hot, I unzipped my coat. I noticed a pretty pink shell not far to my left.

“Can’t we just take off our boots and go for a barefoot walk along the beach, picking up shells and enjoying the lovely weather?” I suggested.

Peter looked disgusted by the very idea. “Grown-ups are always so boring! No sense of adventure at all. Tinker Bell, send her home!”

I heard a soft fluttering and the chiming of small bells behind my head. Before I could turn around or do anything, a sparkly shower of fairy dust came down around me. The beach scene faded away, and I found myself back in my kitchen next to the patio door.

By now, the temperature had climbed above freezing, a light rain had started to fall, and some of the snow on my deck had melted. I imagined that if I looked closely enough, I could just see the long, sinuous outline of the dragon in what remained of the snow.

I’m always wondering what day to take down the Christmas tree in mid-January. Until then, I leave it up because it brightens the winter gloom and I’m not quite ready for the holidays to be over. Then I become indecisive, wanting more sparkly lights on dark days and also wanting to put the tree away for another year and feel that spring is getting closer.

For now, I’m going to let the decision wait a few more days and just look at the stars, instead.

Word-art that says, "When life knocks you down, roll over, and look at the stars."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I made a contribution last month to the Carter Center, remembering the former president’s tireless work to advance democracy and to make the world a better place. He had a full and inspiring life, well deserving of the praise he received today. Character still matters.

Word-art that says, "The real things haven't changed. It is still best to be honest and truthful; to make the most of what we have; to be happy with simple pleasures; and have courage when things go wrong." -Laura Ingalls Wilder

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I had a full workday after a long and relaxing holiday break. Weirdly, it didn’t feel much different. The end of the holidays didn’t leave me feeling deprived of free time. All day, I sat in my desk chair feeling just as relaxed as if I’d been playing games or browsing through blogs, although I was doing my usual job. My Garmin tracker said that I had multiple restful periods while working. Whatever might have caused this curious circumstance, I felt that I was fully inhabiting the now.

Word-art that says, "All we have is now."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”