When I rowed on Tuesday afternoon with my husband, it was another hot and humid day, and we got chased off the water by thunder after just one short lap. Still, it was a good day. I felt more confident rowing my single in the wind, and we didn’t get rained on while washing the boats and putting them away.

By the next morning, the temperature was much cooler; it looks as if the heat wave may finally have broken. More good days to come!

Word-art that says, "Make today a good day."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

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After a while, the blue glaze of ice on the cabin’s old windows melted enough that I could see patchy clouds through the row of icicles hanging from the roof. That wasn’t much of a view because it reminded me of looking into a hungry beast’s fangs. I turned away, just as another icicle hit the ground and shattered.

Photo of icicles with sky and clouds in background.

Yeah, I admit I would’ve liked a tall mug of Ira’s hard cider to take my mind off having come so close to being eaten. But of course, that would not have improved my chances of survival, which already left much to be desired. So, instead, I distracted myself by doing chores for much of the day.

The first place I tackled was the wood plank floor, crusted with mud and the droppings of those furry little creatures in the rafters that resembled miniature turkeys. From the looks of it, Ira didn’t care much; but I was getting creepy thoughts that I might die of some alien disease spread by germs in mini-turkey doo. I filled a bucket with snow and set it by the fire to melt, found a slab of Ira’s harsh homemade soap and a few scraps of fur to use as cleaning rags, and got to work.

Ira, meanwhile, opened the trapdoor to the cellar and climbed down a ladder into its frigid depths, retrieving frozen fish. A quick glance showed me that wooden shelving divided the cellar into a freezer area, just above the icy dirt floor, and a refrigerator area at the top for fruits and veggies. Taking a few large potato-like tubers from a top shelf, Ira put them in a baking pan with the fish and started our dinner cooking.

The cellar looked fairly well stocked. Scrubbing away, I consoled myself with the thought that I’d have plenty to eat here, just as long as nothing ate me. Ira sat at the table and munched nuts from a bowl as he fitted a wicked-looking bone tip to a long spear. I didn’t ask what he might be planning to hunt with it. A half-dozen spears already hung from the back wall. Even though Ira had said there were no more wars, the sight still left me feeling uneasy.

The spears proved useful, however, when I finished washing the floor. I picked up the rug I’d been sleeping on, which was full of stuff I really didn’t want to think about, and took it out to the porch to beat it with a spear shaft. I figured if any wild beasts tried to get me, at least I’d be armed.

I hung the rug over the porch railing and gave it a few good blows, looking over my shoulder after each one and cursing myself for being such a coward.

“Wimp!” I shouted, giving the rug another whack. More dust and droppings flew off, darkening the half-melted snow.

Nothing came slinking out of the forest when I took another glance.

“Worthless wuss!”

With the next blow, a big clump of mud came off the rug, landed on the bottom step, and bounced into the snow. The trees barely moved in a light breeze. No beasts had shown themselves.

“Such a brave dragon slayer, HA!” I shrieked, letting the rug have the full force of my anger and frustration. This time, some fur fell off, and I came to my senses enough to comprehend that I shouldn’t be destroying my host’s rug. I gathered it up along with the spear and went back inside.

The baked fish was starting to smell pretty good. Ira, at the table, looked up from braiding a rope by hand as he gave me a curious glance. I realized he’d heard every word I said. Turning away without meeting his eyes, I fussed with the rug and spear, carefully putting them back in their places.

“Walk with me,” Ira finally said, pushing back his chair as he stood up. “The warhagalla surely will have moved on by now.”

Even if I’d wanted to refuse out of pride, I really did need to use the latrine. Picking up the big knife I’d decided to carry as a dagger, I followed Ira. I was still wearing my shoes, for all the good they did in the snowmelt; the ground was so soggy that after a few steps, my shoes were soaked through. Ira’s big, leathery bare feet padded along in a direct line to the trees, not even trying to avoid the puddles.

As he’d predicted, the warhagalla was long gone. Scavengers had carried off whatever remained of its early-morning kill, and I saw no fresh tracks. Still, I wasn’t inclined to linger, and I was glad to have Ira standing guard while I relieved myself. He set a brisk pace on the way back to the cabin without trying to start a conversation about my feelings, for which I was doubly and triply glad.

Just as we reached the front door, I heard a voice in the forest nearby, answered by another. They weren’t quite close enough for me to make out the words. Opening the door quickly, Ira stood aside to let me enter first, while he kept his gaze fixed on the trees behind us.

“Do you know them?” I asked, after he came inside and shut the door.

“No.” He spoke in a low tone, not much above a whisper. “They could be hunters tracking prey, who always pass by quickly. Or, they could be marauders, looking for homes to rob. If so, they will bang on the door, and I’ll have no choice but to open it, as otherwise they will just break the windows and rob me anyway.”

A deep bass voice sounded much closer now. I made out some words: “here,” and “this way,” followed by shouts of agreement. They clearly were approaching the cabin, which seemed to rule out any chance of a peaceful hunting party.

“You must hide.” Ira’s voice had fallen to an actual whisper now, as he motioned for me to follow him. “You are not from here. If they see you, they’ll assume we are both sorcerers, and the first thing they’ll do is try to kill us both before we have time to cast spells on them.”

As he spoke, Ira opened a large drawer under his sleeping platform and took out furs of various sizes, which he threw haphazardly on the floor as additional rugs. When he’d made enough space in the drawer, he turned back toward me, his words barely audible now.

“Get in.”

I’m writing this post on a Friday morning after a week that felt hectic. Thursday turned into a long day, and there didn’t seem to be much sense in pushing myself to write a blog post late in the evening when I hadn’t gotten to it earlier, so I decided to let it wait.

Everything was good, but I had more errands and distractions than usual this week, and by Wednesday afternoon I felt tired and cranky. Having to hurry down to the river by midafternoon to do a long, exhausting rowing exercise in the heat, so that my husband and I could join a Zoom at 5:30 for the rowing club’s board meeting, left me grumbling to myself as I got into the boat.

After doing the exercise, getting my heart rate up, and flushing out those bad-mood chemicals, I felt much better. As we came back to the dock, my husband said how glad he was to have a wife who enjoyed getting out and rowing with him regularly. I replied that it’s good for both of us. On days when I get too focused on the “weeds” of everyday life, he reminds me of the magic.

Word-art that says, "To love a person is to see all of their magic, and to remind them of it when they have forgotten."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

This week my husband has been working a bit later than usual, but I haven’t minded waiting to go out because the evenings are pleasantly cool. Today we saw a night heron standing on the edge of the dock as we came in. It didn’t seem at all disturbed by the boat and only moved after we got out.

A large groundhog has done a lot of digging around the boathouse. Last week, one of our club members filled in some of the holes and neatly smoothed out the dirt. I expected the groundhog would just dig them all again, since that’s what they do; but although two holes came back quickly, another filled-in area was left undisturbed. My husband and I saw the groundhog when we drove into the parking lot. She looked confused, as if she had been about to run to her burrow, but she wasn’t quite sure where to find it anymore. Then she found another entrance and vanished from sight.

Word-art that says, "Of all the paths you take in life, make sure some of them are dirt."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

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Yesterday morning, I woke up with my hair sticking out weirdly on the left side, and brushing didn’t quite get it back to normal. When I went rowing in the afternoon, my bad hair wasn’t an issue because I wore a hat for sun protection, as usual. And it was also a good hair day, of sorts, because the problem I had last fall with sweaty hands making it hard to hold my oars has now been fixed—very simply, with hair bands.

Photo of four small brown hair bands.

At the RowFest regatta two weeks ago, I mentioned it to Rhonda, my women’s double partner, and she told me that she knew a woman who’d had the same problem and solved it by wrapping hair bands around the oar handles. They improve grip and are thinner than sweat bands, so they don’t get in the way. I took that advice and have been feeling much more confident about rowing my single. I rowed it both yesterday and Tuesday, without any worries about keeping a good grip on the oars. Yay for simple solutions!

I’m posting this entry on Friday afternoon because I forgot to write a Nurturing Thursday post yesterday. Rather than letting negative self-talk occupy any space inside my head, I’m just allowing it to pass as something that happens, making a point of being nice to myself.

Word-art that says, "You spend most of your life inside your head. Make it a nice place to be."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”