I had a rather hectic day, with a new furnace being installed. The weather was unusually warm for December, so the house didn’t cool off much. Now it’s raining, the wind is gusting, and the temperature is dropping fast. But everything is good inside my comfortable house, and I am going to relax and just enjoy the rest of a quiet evening.

Word-art that says, "Just enjoy life."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

December 18, 2025 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

I recently asked my daughter what people do in New Zealand to celebrate Christmas, as it’s in the summer there and many of the winter-themed carols and activities wouldn’t be a good fit. She replied that she hadn’t heard many carols, and then she sent a photo of a “Santa” community walk and run.

People in Santa costumes at a walk and run event in Auckland.

Although I would imagine that wearing a Santa suit while running in the heat of a summer day might get uncomfortable, my daughter said that she walked with her dog—slowly, as the dog is older and has short little legs. Auckland has a maritime climate and doesn’t get as hot as many areas of the United States, so walking would have been fine. I would have liked to see it in person!

We had a contractor out today to estimate a replacement for our furnace, which is the original one from when the house was built in 2002. Working from home makes such appointments much easier, as there’s no need to take time away from an office.

Sometimes I wonder, though, if the house feels a bit dull to me because it functions so much as a workspace. I try to brighten things up regularly with new decorative items, such as mini pumpkins in my kitchen in October and a poinsettia over the holidays. I probably would do better to spend time creating craft items, rather than just buying decorations, so as to put a little of my own magic into the house.

Word-art that says, "Believe in your own magic."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I’ve had a peaceful week without much going on, just staying in my cozy house and looking out at the snow. Although I’m not entirely sure why, some old worries about finding time for things (such as writing my Thursday posts) seem to have quietly drifted away while I wasn’t looking.

Now that some coworkers have retired and not been replaced, I’ve been doing overtime work fairly often, which makes clear that I always had ample time. Having a more structured exercise schedule the past few years left me feeling like all my time was spoken for, but that really wasn’t true. The amount of extra time was not that significant; it was just worry making me feel overburdened.

Word-art that says, "Peace begins where worry ends."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

On Sunday afternoon, my husband and I put up the old artificial Christmas tree in our family room, as we always do over Thanksgiving weekend. We bought it in 1994, when our kids were little and we were in our starter house. The tree looks too short for the tall ceiling here, and every year more plastic needles fall off. We can’t bring ourselves to throw it away because of fond memories. But at least, it’s had a bit of a makeover with new, thicker tinsel strands to brighten it up.


Since my blog is supposed to be about modern life, I started wondering if a post about my family being sentimental about an outdated fake Christmas tree suited the theme. That got me thinking about the origin of the word “modern,” which I knew came from Latin, but I wasn’t sure if the Romans thought of modernity in terms of being more advanced than the barbarians. So, I looked it up and found that the original Latin word simply meant “at the present time,” and it wasn’t until much later that the English word acquired the connotation of living in a more advanced time.

That left me feeling better about mentioning my family’s antiquated Christmas tree in a post. It’s here at the present time, so it’s modern by Roman standards, anyway. And of course, keeping it and buying a new tree don’t have to be mutually exclusive. Maybe next year we’ll buy a tall new tree that’s better suited to the dimensions of our family room, while setting up the old one in a corner of the basement. There’s no reason to confine holiday cheer to the main floor, after all.