I’ve had a peaceful week without much going on, just staying in my cozy house and looking out at the snow. Although I’m not entirely sure why, some old worries about finding time for things (such as writing my Thursday posts) seem to have quietly drifted away while I wasn’t looking.

Now that some coworkers have retired and not been replaced, I’ve been doing overtime work fairly often, which makes clear that I always had ample time. Having a more structured exercise schedule the past few years left me feeling like all my time was spoken for, but that really wasn’t true. The amount of extra time was not that significant; it was just worry making me feel overburdened.

Word-art that says, "Peace begins where worry ends."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

On Sunday afternoon, my husband and I put up the old artificial Christmas tree in our family room, as we always do over Thanksgiving weekend. We bought it in 1994, when our kids were little and we were in our starter house. The tree looks too short for the tall ceiling here, and every year more plastic needles fall off. We can’t bring ourselves to throw it away because of fond memories. But at least, it’s had a bit of a makeover with new, thicker tinsel strands to brighten it up.


Since my blog is supposed to be about modern life, I started wondering if a post about my family being sentimental about an outdated fake Christmas tree suited the theme. That got me thinking about the origin of the word “modern,” which I knew came from Latin, but I wasn’t sure if the Romans thought of modernity in terms of being more advanced than the barbarians. So, I looked it up and found that the original Latin word simply meant “at the present time,” and it wasn’t until much later that the English word acquired the connotation of living in a more advanced time.

That left me feeling better about mentioning my family’s antiquated Christmas tree in a post. It’s here at the present time, so it’s modern by Roman standards, anyway. And of course, keeping it and buying a new tree don’t have to be mutually exclusive. Maybe next year we’ll buy a tall new tree that’s better suited to the dimensions of our family room, while setting up the old one in a corner of the basement. There’s no reason to confine holiday cheer to the main floor, after all.

Wintery weather blew in yesterday, with high winds and temperatures falling throughout the day. To be honest, I didn’t look forward to waking up early and going out in the freezing cold to run the Turkey Trot.

Everything was all right, though. The temperature didn’t get much above freezing, but the roads were clear, the wind wasn’t as strong, and this year’s race sweatshirt was thick and warm. The event was well attended, and I wasn’t grumbling to myself while running but was glad to be part of the community.

Then we came home to a warm house, a restful afternoon, and a good family dinner. A day to be thankful.

Word-art that says, "It's a good day to be thankful."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

As the holiday season begins, I’m remembering what it was like to decorate the Christmas tree as a child. The strands of tinsel gleamed like magical highways in the sky, winding their way around the bright starry lights. I imagined the ornaments happily traveling to different parts of the tree to visit one another. Sometimes I rearranged them while playing out that scenario.

While sparkly decorations don’t seem as fascinating once we’ve grown up, it probably would do us some good, every now and again, to find a little magic in our surroundings.

Word-art that says, "Find a little magic every day."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

November 18, 2025 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

Although most of our daughter’s recent photos were taken while walking her dog on Auckland’s many trails and beaches, she included one showing a Christmas tree in her apartment, with a note that she had put up Christmas decorations earlier than she used to because there is no Thanksgiving in New Zealand.

Photo of dog with decorated Christmas tree.

In past years, we always put up our tree on Thanksgiving weekend, after giving ourselves plenty of time to recover from running the Turkey Trot and then eating the turkey dinner cooked by my husband’s parents in the house where he grew up. But now that they have passed away, Thanksgiving doesn’t feel much like a holiday to me anymore.

We still run the Turkey Trot, and our daughter will do a virtual run to keep the tradition with us, although I have no idea when she’ll do it because of the time difference. I won’t cook a turkey dinner but instead will cook a rib roast to eat with my husband and son; and if we are not as motivated to put up the tree, we’ll do it by the end of the weekend anyway. It’s good to have family traditions, even if they change over the years.

After an evening workout on the rowing machine, I was wondering whether I should go write my Nurturing Thursday post or do an hour of continuing education, which has a year-end deadline approaching. I decided to write a post first and then do an online course. Instead of getting to it right away, though, I spent some time looking at images on Pinterest. Such is life in the modern world.

Looking at it more positively, I was not just wasting time online; rather, I was choosing to rest and relax for a while, understanding that self-nurturing should be a priority, and there is, in fact, plenty of time to deal with the to-dos. I’m off to start the course now…

Word-art that says, "Life is a series of choices. Choose wisely."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

November 12, 2025 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

I’m back home for the winter now, after having a great time at the Head of the South regatta. The weather in Augusta was perfect—warm and summery with little wind. My husband and I were rowing one of the club’s boats because we had sent our double back to the factory in Canada to have all its scratches and dings cleaned up over the winter. Still, we rowed well and took third place after racing our singles earlier, so we were happy with the result. Afterward, we had dinner with my mom and stepfather, who live in Spartanburg.

We left the summer behind on Sunday as we drove back to Ohio, arriving on a chilly evening with a few flurries. We put our singles away on their racks along the back wall of the garage. By morning, snow covered the ground, and I took a photo out the kitchen window. It hadn’t yet stopped snowing when we took the club’s double back to the boathouse, along with another boat we were transporting.

Photo of snow at my house in early November after returning from a trip south.

Although today wasn’t as cold, and the snow has melted already, the rowing season is definitely over. I’m glad to have a comfortable workout room in the basement for rowing machine exercises on dark winter days, but I’ll miss the outdoors for the next few months.

After a fun week in Chattanooga, my husband and I are packing up to spend a couple of days in Augusta, rowing in the Head of the South regatta on Saturday. That will be the last of our travels for the year. Our boats will gather dust all winter on the back wall of the garage, and we’ll sit indoors on the rowing machine in the basement while the cold winds howl outside the tiny window. But for now… another adventure.


Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I’m off again with my husband for another rowing trip, to Chattanooga for the Head of the Hooch regatta, which is always the first weekend in November, on the Tennessee River. It previously was held on the Chattahoochee River, hence the name. We’ve rowed there many times, but now we are staying for a week at an Airbnb in Chattanooga, rather than just for the weekend as before. Now that both of us work remotely, there’s no need to hurry home, as we used to do when he had to be in the office on Monday. We can stay for a while and enjoy the adventure.

Word-art that says, "Say yes to new adventures."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

October 28, 2025 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

My daughter’s schedule for her first workweek in Auckland is day shift at the hospital Wednesday through Friday, which means she has already worked the first day because New Zealand is currently 17 hours ahead of U.S. Eastern time, until we fall back to standard time on Sunday and the difference then becomes 18 hours. I put Auckland’s time and weather on my phone so I can keep track of it.

One wall of her little apartment is made up of windows, giving a nice view. The dog, who loves to look out windows, seems to have claimed much of that space, as shown in the photo below.

Photo of dog looking out a window.

It looks very cozy! Although I probably won’t get to Auckland for a visit until next year, I am sure I’ll enjoy it when the time comes.