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After I had tried to describe my dream three times, getting more confused with each try, Ira sensibly suggested a brisk walk to clear the cobwebs—or, as he put it, “to let the swirling waters settle.” He led me along a meandering path to a branch of the nearby creek, over snow that had formed a thick enough crust overnight to keep my unsuitable shoes from getting soaked through again.

Photo of river with snowy banks, conifers, and a mountain range.

“Was this where the ice serpent came up while you were fishing?” I stayed a few steps behind Ira as he approached the creek, even though I didn’t believe there was much truth to his monster-slaying tales.

Ira knelt beside the creek and used his cupped hands to scoop up water, which he drank before replying. “Not in this place. It’s too shallow for the serpents here.”

Maybe truth didn’t always need to be sorted from tales, I thought, as my mind circled back to the dream—dragons and a magical bridge to the sky.

“When the sorcerers spoke of the need to learn how people and dragons both could live in the world,” I began, making another attempt to explain the dream, “that was hundreds of years ago, wasn’t it? And people spoke many languages then? Is it possible the words might have meant something a little different? Words and stories can change their meaning over many years.”

A twig snapped nearby as a large animal, something like a moose with broad reddish-purple antlers, caught a glimpse of us and bolted deeper into the forest.

“I told you the story exactly as my mother told it to me.” Turning away from the creek, Ira fell into step beside me on the path back to the cabin.

“Where I come from, there’s a word that means something close to what the sorcerers said.” The symbols that made letters on the bumper sticker in my dream gleamed vividly in my thoughts. “Coexist.”

As I said the word, Ira’s language spell rendered it as “together-exist.” The cabin came into view around a turn in the path while I thought about how to explain the concept more clearly.

“It doesn’t just mean living in the same world,” I went on, “or not being at war, or leaving each other alone. It also means learning how to work together so that the world can get better.”

“How can anyone work with dragons? They’re animals.” Ira’s dismissive tone reminded me of Shay when he said catching dragons shouldn’t be that hard of a job.

“My people also think dragons are animals,” I had to acknowledge, “and if my people ever saw you, they’d believe you were an animal—or a monster—just because you don’t look like them. The dragons probably thought your ancestors were monsters for taking fish that they needed to keep themselves and their children well fed. Just yesterday, I had to hide in a drawer all afternoon so I wouldn’t get killed for looking different.”

Passing by his woodpile, which was higher than my head, Ira gave me a handful of dry branches and picked up three much heftier logs himself. He walked on toward the cabin with the same brisk stride, as if barely noticing the weight.

“And you think that I am—a diminisher, I guess, or something of the sort, because I told you that I see myself as not having a gender. But that’s okay, isn’t it, Ira? We’re friends anyway, and we can work together.”

After we got inside the cabin, Ira put down his logs next to the fireplace and took my smaller pieces to start building up the fire.

“We are friends,” he agreed. “I said the words to make it so. That will not change; and we are working together, this morning, if only to carry firewood. Dragons, though—what can be done with them?”

Sparks flew up when Ira put one of the bigger logs on the fire. I almost expected to see visions of magical scenes appearing in the flames, but then I curbed my imagination and brought myself back to the moment before I spoke again.

“Has anyone ever tried to use the friendship and language spells on a dragon?”

With sunny and warm afternoons all week, it almost has me feeling like the season is reluctant to change. Although cold nights and crisp mornings make it obvious that we are far past summer, the higher temperatures later in the day are deceptive. I noticed one tiny violet blooming in the grass this afternoon, just as if it were springtime. More leaves are falling every day, of course, as nature’s reminder that everything must change, even though it might not always come easily.

Word-art that says, "As leaves fall, they teach us the courage of change."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

October 22, 2026 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

This morning, a coworker said she hoped I had a nice and relaxing vacation. I told her that I would call it more of an “interesting” vacation because hurricane remnants in Tennessee on Saturday, October 10, meant my husband was racing his single at Oak Ridge in a windy and icy downpour, which he told me was the worst row of his life. After that, the conditions deteriorated so much that the women’s singles were cancelled for safety reasons. We had good weather for our Sunday double race, however, and we improved on our time from last year, although we did not place.

Then we were off to Boston, where we had a nice sunny practice day on Thursday after parking the trailer in a good spot very close to a dock. The temperature was comfortable, and the blue sky was lovely.

Boat trailer parked at Head of the Charles under a blue sky.

Friday morning wasn’t so good. We were helping a teammate who had to race her single in heavy rain. She was soaking wet and shivering after she got back to the dock. There was no rain on Saturday for our double race, under a mostly cloudy sky, but it had the strongest headwind we’ve ever struggled against; so, my vacation was definitely interesting, to say the least.

I can’t complain, though, because it was good experience anyway; and now that we are back home, we’re having a beautiful string of sunny and warm afternoons with very little wind, perfect for easy practice rows.

I’m on the road this week and not blogging, so I scheduled this post in advance. I chose this particular image because I wanted something motivational, giving more energy for my travels, and it suited my mood.

Word-art that says, "Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle you will ever face."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I finished my workweek early this afternoon and am taking a long vacation until Monday the 19th, with a trip to Tennessee this weekend and then back out again to Boston. I particularly like road trips in October, seeing the colorful autumn leaves along the highways. Wishing bright and wonderful adventures to everyone!

Word-art that says, "Some journeys are meant to change you."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

Looking through a second-story window in a quiet moment today, I saw that several taller trees were turning a lovely autumn red, although the change of seasons hadn’t been as noticeable from ground level when I was busy doing ordinary tasks. I probably would have noticed them if I’d spent a few minutes sitting quietly outside and paying attention to my surroundings. There’s a lesson for me in that.

Word-art that says, "Sometimes, you just need to sit in silence and let life teach you."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

September 30, 2026 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

A large spider has taken up residence in the front yard, stretching its very long web between the shrubs on either side of the walkway that leads to the front door. It hasn’t been in our way because we mainly go in and out through the garage. When someone comes to the door and walks through the web, such as for package delivery, the spider just rebuilds.

Photo of spider in my front yard.

You can see the spider in its web on the right side of this photo, with the neighbors’ driveway as the background. Although my husband thought about getting rid of it when he mowed the lawn, he decided to leave it alone because it has not done us any harm. As for me, I wouldn’t want a spider living permanently in front of my door, but I expect it won’t be there long, as winter is coming and it will soon hide away wherever spiders go in cold weather.

After coming home from Chattanooga, which was hot and humid on Saturday, the change of seasons felt very sudden. Rain blew into Ohio, bringing a chilly week overcast with heavy, dark clouds. I have to admit I wasn’t excited to see summer disappear so quickly. But this afternoon, when my husband and I went outdoors, the sky cleared just as suddenly, changing to the crisp brightness of autumn.

Word-art that says, "The changing of seasons reminds us that staying the same was never life's intention."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

My husband and I rowed our double in the Chicago River half-marathon early Sunday morning. The course goes through downtown Chicago and turns around where the river opens out to Lake Michigan. For us, it’s just a sightseeing row, as there are many faster crews.

We’re traveling again this weekend for the Tennessee Gorge row in Chattanooga, which is another long sunrise row. I have to admit it’s not always easy to keep up with my husband’s Energizer Bunny level of activity, but it’s good for me anyway, even when it takes a little time to recover.

Word-art that says, "Rise like the sun— no matter how many times you fall."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

This has been a week of afternoon storms rolling through, which has made things feel rushed because there isn’t as much time after work to row on the river when sunset is getting earlier. Checking the weather forecast isn’t very useful because scattered storms could be anywhere.

Today we hurried out even though we had more work to do later, trying to get out when the weather was best. The river was calm, the air was fresh, and although it was overcast and there were a few sprinkles here and there, I didn’t mind because they felt cool and refreshing. After rowing for a while, I had almost forgotten those hectic workday feelings; they drifted away like the fallen leaves in the current.

Word-art that says, "Embrace the stillness of nature; let it heal and bring you peace."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”