This has been a week of afternoon storms rolling through, which has made things feel rushed because there isn’t as much time after work to row on the river when sunset is getting earlier. Checking the weather forecast isn’t very useful because scattered storms could be anywhere.

Today we hurried out even though we had more work to do later, trying to get out when the weather was best. The river was calm, the air was fresh, and although it was overcast and there were a few sprinkles here and there, I didn’t mind because they felt cool and refreshing. After rowing for a while, I had almost forgotten those hectic workday feelings; they drifted away like the fallen leaves in the current.

Word-art that says, "Embrace the stillness of nature; let it heal and bring you peace."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

My new work laptop is mostly the way I like it now, but it has one issue that the old one didn’t have. It came with a background image of the view from a window of the New York corporate office. That seemed okay at first, and I don’t look at the background much when I’m working anyway; but I soon realized it made more of a difference than I thought.

I use a large monitor with the laptop off to the side, and I’ve always had landscape images as my background. Having the city office image in my peripheral vision, rather than a peaceful landscape, left me feeling slightly unsettled. So, I went to Settings to change the background, only to find that setting was grayed out, and nobody else who had gotten a new laptop had the ability to change it either.

My first thought was that someone in management had gotten the weird idea that forcing everyone to have the same office background would build corporate solidarity. Then I started wondering if maybe there had been complaints about somebody at the office having inappropriate background pictures.

When I mentioned it to my husband, he suggested running Photos as administrator to change the background, but it wasn’t allowing that either. I decided that as a workaround, I would just leave Photos open on the laptop screen with whatever image I wanted. This is what it looks like now:

Photo of two monitors on my desk, one with corporate office background and one with landscape image.

There is an employee survey ongoing, and I’m going to write a comment about how much a calming, restful background image improves my work environment and productivity. I don’t know how useful that will be, but it can’t do any harm.

Although this may seem like a small issue, there are so many not-quite-right little things in our modern world causing low-level anxiety, I try to be proactive about making improvements when I can.

I’ve had a pretty mellow week so far. My new laptop is functioning properly now, last week’s heap of work has been sorted, the overtime for it will be in my pay tomorrow, and the long weekend is almost here.

I didn’t even mind doing my rowing workouts in the broiling sun this week because that’s better than thunderstorms and having to stay indoors. Turtles were soaking up the sunshine on logs beside the river, enjoying the last days of summer. They had the right idea!

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I’ve had a rather stressful week because several people in my workgroup, including me, have been issued new laptops with some sort of configuration problem that hasn’t yet been solved. So, I am still working on my old computer, with frequent distractions while discussing the new machine’s issues with tech support. Meanwhile, other people have been temporarily reassigned to another project, another coworker is out for a long weekend, and heaps of work are piling up.

But, on the bright side, there is overtime pay, and I had a lovely sunset row with my husband this evening in our new singles, so I’m feeling pretty cheerful right now.

Word-art that says, "Being negative only makes a journey more difficult. You may be given a cactus, but you don't have to sit on it."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

A sunny Thursday after more than a week of storms was great to see. The river was still high today because of last night’s rain, but now it’s starting to look like we are getting back to regular summer days with sunshine and less humidity. I’m looking forward to enjoying a pleasant weekend. Wishing everyone the same!

Word-art that says, "Keep chasing sunshine and dreams. The best is yet to come."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

This is the 19th story in a series. Click here to read all parts from the beginning.

The mountain road climbed steeply again as my Chevy truck took a sharp curve. A forest rose up ahead, off to the right, marching into a hazy sky. On my left, a rocky, crumbling slope fell away.

Photo of a mountain road with sharp curves.

(Creative Commons image via flickr)

Something about the road seemed familiar, but I didn’t know why I was on it. Another curve, even steeper, brought me up behind a black F-150 with a dragon in the driver’s seat. She had golden-green scales, shimmering in the sunlight, and I recognized her as the same dragon I’d captured in a Knoxville warehouse last summer.

The Ford had a bumper sticker with gold lettering, not quite close enough for me to read it. I felt that I needed to know what it said, so I gave my truck some gas. The tires vibrated on the rough pavement like a rocket blasting off. By now, there were sheer cliffs on both sides of the road. It slanted upward at an impossible angle, bridging earth and sky.

I gained on the Ford, gravity notwithstanding, and drew close enough to read the bumper sticker. A familiar row of symbols in place of letters came together to make a word I’d seen many times before.

Just as the meaning came clear, the entire scene started fading away into the haze, and I realized that it was all a dream and I was about to wake up.

“Oh, no, you don’t,” I muttered, flooring the Chevy and turning the wheel sharply to the right. I launched myself out the window, grabbing hold of the Ford’s bumper as my truck plunged off the cliff and, an instant later, dissolved into nothingness.

The bumper sticker tried to dissolve too, but I wrestled it back into form and meaning until every line of the symbols glowed brightly in my waking mind.

“Got you,” I declared in satisfaction, sitting up in the predawn light as the plain walls of the cabin took shape around me.

Across the room, in his bed, Ira chuckled. “What did you get?”

The golden symbols still gleamed in my thoughts, disrupting any words I tried to put together. Images flowed through my mind instead—spellbooks and shiny dragon hoards, earth and sky, a tiny ribbon of magical space connecting them—and I was that ribbon. I hadn’t yet formed a conscious intent to answer when I heard myself speaking, but the words felt solid and true.

“A gift in a dream.”

This has been a week of ferocious thunderstorms. My backyard is so soggy that the lawn service company couldn’t do the scheduled service. The river is too high for rowing; we hurried out after work on Tuesday, when the water was rising and it was still possible to row, but the river was full of mud and small branches, so all we could do was paddle slowly and carefully.

Today and Wednesday there wasn’t much to do but stay in and do our workouts on the rowing machine in the hot and humid basement. Oh, well, it’s peaceful to sit quietly and listen to the rain after the thunder and lightning have passed over. Nothing to worry about!

Word-art that says, "Let the rain wash away your worries."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

In addition to posting Nurturing Thursday entries on my blog, I also send Nurturing Thursday messages (different ones) to my coworkers via email. Today, I almost forgot, and sent my email at the end of the workday. So, for my blog, I decided a reminder theme would suit.

Word-art that says, "Don't forget how amazing, strong, talented, beautiful, enough, not alone & loved you are."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

August 6, 2026 · 2 comments · Categories: Musings · Tags:

Last week had some rainy days, and my husband and I got drenched while rowing on Saturday. Meanwhile, in Auckland, which has a damp maritime climate and is often cloudy, there was a long string of sunny days, and our daughter took photos of her dog enjoying the sunshine.

Photo of dog napping in the sun.

My husband wondered if dogs find sunny spots more by sight or by smell, so he looked that up. The answer is that dogs can indeed smell the particles that come off a couch, carpet, etc., when it heats up in sunlight. Although humans lack the ability to sniff around for sunshine, I’m glad to say that we found some this week anyway, as the days got clearer and we spent time outdoors on pleasant afternoons.

I had a quiet and relaxing workday, feeling comfortable in my home office with my husband sitting at his desk across the room. After work, we enjoyed a lovely summer evening, perfect for rowing singles. The sky was clear, and the setting sun glittered on the water. A heron was standing on the dock, quite unafraid, as we came back in. By the end of the day, my soul felt much refreshed.


Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”