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Maybe she had misheard the shocking accusation of murder, Ina thought. Surely, the Wild Forest’s witches could not have killed Nellie’s sister. They lived so peacefully in their secluded compound, striving for harmony with nature, that Ina couldn’t imagine them doing violence to anyone.

“I wasn’t here six years ago,” Ina replied, choosing her words carefully, “and I know nothing about what happened to your sister. Nobody ever spoke of her to me.”

“They killed her, I said!” Nellie’s voice rose in agitation as she waved her hands wildly. The knuckles of her right hand bumped the vase, which skittered across the table and fell off the edge before Nellie could catch it. The pink rose flew out, landing among thin grass and weeds in the shadow of the porch.

A cut pink rose, fallen to the ground.

“Oh!” Clenching her hands again, Nellie sounded far more upset than simply dropping a vase—which didn’t appear to have taken any damage—might ordinarily have warranted. She visibly took several deep calming breaths, and then a sip of tea, before saying more.

“Early in the morning, on that Midsummer’s Eve, the air hung hot and still, with clouds gathering on the horizon—much as it was last year, when you arrived. Hetty was not yet eighteen, and she had come to stay here with me while John went into the city. I welcomed her help, as Mabel was still very young and was recovering from a fever.

“A girl wandered into the yard while Hetty and I were washing the breakfast dishes. She couldn’t tell us her name or where she was from, so we knew the witches had summoned her. Trying to keep her safe, we pretended that we knew her people in a nearby village and promised we’d take her there bright and early tomorrow, after John returned with the ox cart. We hoped that if she stayed here all night, she’d be free of the spell by daybreak.”

Nellie blinked twice and then abruptly got up from the table, turning her face away and rubbing one hand across her eyes as she picked up the fallen vase with the other hand.

“But we couldn’t stop our visitor from leaving.” Nellie settled back into her chair, restoring the now-empty vase to the table. “Late in the afternoon, a strong thunderstorm blew in, and we thought she’d have no choice but to stay the night. Instead, she lifted her head suddenly, like a dog hearing a distant whistle. She was out the door and hurrying toward the forest through the pelting rain at dusk before we realized what was happening. Hetty followed at once, while I stayed here with Mabel. Soon afterward, the rain stopped, but they did not return. The next morning, I found Hetty’s body washed up on the riverbank.”

I did an online “Yoga for Sleep” session this evening, with gentle exercises to help relax the mind and body. One of them was to lie face down while bending the knees and moving the legs back and forth like windshield wipers. Whether or not that exercise helps me to sleep better tonight, it felt silly enough to make me want to laugh. That, in itself, was probably good for me.


Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

My husband is currently “unhorsed” because his car is in the shop, so we are sharing my car this week. Today, I went out and had to detour around a stretch of highway that is under construction. I reminded myself that it still got me there faster than a horse and buggy, and that we always have a lot to be grateful for in modern times, whatever may be happening at the moment.

Word-art that says, "Advice from a horse: Take life's hurdles in stride. Loosen the reins. Be free spirited. Keep the burrs from under your saddle. Carry your friends when they need it. Keep stable. Gallop to greatness!" -Ilan Shamir

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

April 9, 2025 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

…flooding at the boathouse. After several days of heavy rain, the parking lot, the road, and the surrounding parkland were all underwater on Sunday afternoon, when the river crested. The water did not quite reach the boathouse doors, fortunately, and everything inside stayed dry. Although the river is on its way back down, we certainly won’t be rowing in the next few days.

Flooded road and park in front of the Greater Dayton Rowing Association boathouse.

My husband took a break from his work this afternoon and slogged through the mud to look at the river. He is hopeful that we may be able to get out and row this weekend. I suspect Monday is more likely; but we are both looking forward to enjoying pleasant spring days on the river, whenever we get them.

I had a conversation with my manager this afternoon, in which she recommended a series of online courses for personal development. The first in the series was about developing a growth mindset.

Although “growth mindset” is somewhat of a buzzword, I went ahead and took the course, and I found it worthwhile. Resilience and self-nurturing were among the topics discussed, along with the expectation of always finding something new to learn. I came away feeling encouraged.

Word-art that says, "Always walk through life as if you have something new to learn and you will." -Vernon Howard

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

I’m currently reading Buried Deep by Naomi Novik, a collection of short stories. Fairies, witches, dragons, monsters, oh my. Lots of fun. She is one of my favorite authors.

I hope you’re having a good week, too!

Word-art that says, "No one is too old for fairytales."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

There is a new neighbor on my street, who owns a landscaping company. Soon after he moved in, my next-door neighbor hired him to clear away the overgrown, mismatched hedge (shown in this 2014 post) along our property line. The work is still in progress, but it’s already looking much better. Other than a redbud at the front (which I like) and a few other trees left standing, it has mostly been cut down. I took a photo of it this afternoon, and the open space felt pleasant and inviting.

Landscaping in progress, with most of a hedge removed.

I don’t yet know what will be planted there, but I am sure it will be an improvement, whatever it is. My husband told our new neighbor that we’d like to have some landscaping work done, too. After all the time I spent last summer cutting back some neglected bushes, which had to be gotten out of the way before having new windows installed, I definitely like the idea of contracting out this season’s yard work.

Deciding what to tag this post gave me some indecision. I had in mind that leaving space for improvement invites good things to show up, but I couldn’t think of a word that seemed quite right to express that idea. Looking in my list of previously used tags, I chose “Attraction” and “Positivity,” which came close. I tried putting the question into an AI prompt and got “Manifestation” in response, but I opted against that one because I hadn’t visualized anything in particular for the landscaping.

After pondering over it a little longer, I added “Places,” which is a tag I use for how my surroundings make me feel. At that point, I decided three tags would be enough—no need to be a perfectionist about it.

When I woke up this morning and went into the home office to start my workday, I heard cold winds howling. It was so dark outside that I hadn’t wanted to open the blinds in the kitchen when I got my coffee.

The sun never did come out, but everything felt brighter when my husband came into the room and sat down at his computer. No need for sunny days to feel cheerful when we have each other’s company.

Word-art that says, "We all have a beautiful light within... We just sometimes forget it is there."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

The phrase “uncanny valley,” which comes from robotics, means the disturbing gap between something we expect to see and something that almost—but not quite—fits those expectations. When we can see immediately that a robot is a machine and not a person, it doesn’t look creepy. If it has a few humanoid features but is still an obvious robot, then it feels reasonably familiar, and we’re okay with it. As it gets closer to looking human and might be mistaken for a real person, that’s when it falls into the uncanny valley. Even when we know it’s harmless, we feel subconsciously threatened anyway—as if we’re looking at a foggy, scary mental landscape of dizzying heights and jagged peaks.

Photo of jagged mountains in clouds.

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Last month, my husband and I went on a road trip to Florida. During one of our stops to get gas and use the facilities, a woman came out of the ladies’ room looking quite agitated.

“There’s a man in there!” she hissed, in a tone that someone might have used to warn about a rabid beast.

I stopped in the doorway for a moment, taken aback, as she hurried away. Not hearing anything out of the ordinary, I went inside. There was only one other person in the restroom, inside a stall with a closed door, who stayed in there until after I left; so, I can’t say what prompted the warning.

Because I regularly row, which is a sport that has many tall and muscular women, I don’t pay much attention when I see a woman of such proportions. I tend to assume she is probably an athlete, rather than speculating on whether she might be transgender.

As far as I know, I’ve never been a target of such speculation myself. I look more athletic than most middle-aged women, but I am short and have narrow shoulders and small hands, so it seems very unlikely that anyone would perceive me as masculine.

Still, it’s always disconcerting to be reminded of how easily one might find oneself in a less-welcomed group, just because society’s prevailing winds have shifted. That said, I don’t mean to criticize or blame people for reacting in fear when something sets off their uncanny-valley threat detectors. Fear of the Other is, and always has been, part of human nature, going back to the ancient world’s tribal warfare. Whether that will ever change—who knows.

When I went back to the car, my husband had just finished pumping the gas, and we got on the road again. For us, it was just a rest stop.

My husband has been busy this week and hasn’t gotten quite enough rest, but he has been cheerfully taking a few minutes here and there to watch goofy reels and other online amusement. A good laugh goes a long way toward a healthy life—although, of course, it doesn’t make up for not sleeping long enough. I’ll make sure to let him rest well over the weekend.

Word-art that says, "A good laugh and a long sleep are the two best cures for anything." - Irish Proverb

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”