This weekend’s giant snowstorm is forecast to reach my area on Saturday afternoon, but I am not worried. My husband and I are well prepared; both of us work remotely, we had a generator installed over the summer, and my husband also set up a backup cellular modem just in case the broadband cable goes out. He is so well organized that he was charging his car battery today because he hadn’t gone out in a while. The only thing left is the grocery shopping, which I’ll do tomorrow on my lunch break. It’s all good.

Word-art that says, "Snow Worries. Be Happy."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

It’s Friday afternoon now; last night the time got away from me, and although I remembered that I hadn’t posted anything to this blog when I was getting into bed at midnight, hurrying to do it didn’t make sense when Thursday was already over.

Anyway, what I like most about winter is that it’s an unhurried time of the year.

Word-art that says, "Wishing you a happy winter."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

Sharing a cute word-art image with a list of New Year’s resolutions. As for the one that calls for wearing more lingerie, I bought a pack of ordinary cotton panties this week. A little more creativity in that regard probably wouldn’t go amiss. It fits well with the cheerful tone of the other resolutions, anyway.

Word-art that says, "This year I will love more, worry less, be brave, live in the moment, say yes, be curious, wear more lingerie."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

If I had been inclined to assess my performance on last year’s resolution to Allow What Is, then I would have noted both setbacks and improvements. Not judging myself was part of that resolution, however, so this post won’t get into what I did or how it might have gone better. I’ll just say that I arrived in December feeling calmer than last winter, and leave it at that.

The word “Permission” came to mind several weeks ago as an intention for 2026. Going beyond avoiding self-judgment, it’s about simply giving myself permission to be. Whatever plans and schedules I may have, they’re not going to collapse into an unmanageable mess if I am not ruminating about them.

What often happens, as when I found a replacement for my art display, is that when I can quiet my mind and set aside the to-dos, there’s enough space for new solutions to appear. I’ve found and uploaded a few Creative Commons images for the display, and I plan to use this one tomorrow as a reminder that life should be like a tree, growing naturally without need for wasted effort:

Tree with double trunk stretching toward the sky.

(Photo credit: Christopher John)

Although I changed the image on my previous art display every morning, it never felt like a daily chore. Rather, I welcomed the opportunity to give myself another view from the imaginary window each day, and I plan to do so again with the new display. I expect there must be something in all my daily routines that can inspire gratitude as well—or if not, there are ways to improve them.

I still take the week between Christmas and New Year’s off from work, as does my husband, even though our kids are long since grown and we don’t do much of anything for the holidays. Not doing much is what I like about this week now; it’s a peaceful, uninterrupted time to let the pace of life quietly wind down, while reflecting on what has gone well in the past year and what there is to be glad about as another year begins.

Word-art that says, "A Glad New Year."

(Image credit: The Graphics Fairy)

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

My first digital art display, from the now-defunct company Electric Objects, turned into a brick when the online library was shut down in 2023. I’d been changing the image almost every morning to give myself imaginary windows into new places, many of which gave me ideas for blog posts and stories. Without my daily picture to spark fresh thoughts, I felt that I’d lost some of my creative energy.

I thought there had to be something out there with similar features, but Google searches didn’t turn up anything quite right. I’d been busy with overtime work as my employer focused more on AI, my husband was busy too, and our rowing exercises and long road trips to regattas didn’t seem to leave much time to research available products. Replacing the art display ended up on the get-around-to-it-sometime list.

It wasn’t until the day after Christmas, when I’d had enough quiet time to free up a few brain cells, that I realized I could simply use AI to find a new digital art display with the features I wanted. I had to edit my prompt a few times, but Copilot soon located the Meural Canvas II by Netgear, which has what I was looking for—an online library, upload capability, and an app to change the picture whenever I want.

I cropped one of the images my daughter sent from Auckland, with her dog and the Christmas tree in her apartment, and I displayed it this morning. Then I sent her a photo showing the picture on the wall, to give her some holiday cheer when she’s so far from home.

Photo of digital art display with image of dog and Christmas tree

It cheered me up, too, on a dark midwinter morning when there was so little sunlight that everything around the image looked gray. (That wall is actually white.) I’d turned on a daylight lamp on the end table beside the couch, but it didn’t do much to relieve the gloom by itself. Having a new art display with a cheerful image reminding me of close family bonds did much more.

Early this afternoon, my husband and I enjoyed a video call with our daughter after she got home from working the night shift on Christmas; it was already morning on the 26th in Auckland. Regardless of the time and season differences, it was merry. Not quite like being together—but almost.

Wishing a wonderful holiday season to everyone reading this post, too!


Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

December 25, 2025 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

This photo from Auckland is way too cute to keep it to myself:

Photo of dog next to sidewalk chalk and a Merry Christmas message on asphalt.

Remi the Artist Dog, merrily enjoying Christmas in the summer.

I had a rather hectic day, with a new furnace being installed. The weather was unusually warm for December, so the house didn’t cool off much. Now it’s raining, the wind is gusting, and the temperature is dropping fast. But everything is good inside my comfortable house, and I am going to relax and just enjoy the rest of a quiet evening.

Word-art that says, "Just enjoy life."

Nurturing Thursday was started by Becca Givens and seeks to encourage self-nurturing and to “give the planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy.”

December 18, 2025 · Write a comment · Categories: Musings · Tags:

I recently asked my daughter what people do in New Zealand to celebrate Christmas, as it’s in the summer there and many of the winter-themed carols and activities wouldn’t be a good fit. She replied that she hadn’t heard many carols, and then she sent a photo of a “Santa” community walk and run.

People in Santa costumes at a walk and run event in Auckland.

Although I would imagine that wearing a Santa suit while running in the heat of a summer day might get uncomfortable, my daughter said that she walked with her dog—slowly, as the dog is older and has short little legs. Auckland has a maritime climate and doesn’t get as hot as many areas of the United States, so walking would have been fine. I would have liked to see it in person!